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Rainy Day Activities

Posted on: October 28th, 2009 by Coleen Bennett No Comments

Winter is coming, and you know what that means. Restless, cooped up kids are going to drive you crazy. Everyone needs to get out of the house – kids and adults alike. But it’s cold and rainy out. What is there to do? Well, here are some ideas of things to do on a rainy day.

Ice Skating. Don’t hide from winter, embrace it! Get out the mittens, scarves and jackets and go ice skating. Kids will get the wiggles out and you’ll get some exercise. And when you get home you’ll enjoy how warm your house is! You might be surprised to learn that there are quite a few Orange County Ice Skating Rinks – both indoors and outdoors.

The Mall. When the going gets tough, the tough go shopping. You don’t actually have to buy anything. Local indoor malls have carousels, play equipment and more. Young ones will love wandering through the Disney Store. Older kids might go shopping for clothes. After all, now that the weather is getting cooler, they might need more long pants or a new jacket.

Make Tents. Let the kids turn your house, or at least a part of it, into a tent city. Get out extra sheets, blankets and towels. The kids can drape them over chairs and tables to make a cool indoor tent. Flashlights and books are a must!

Brave the Outdoors. I know you’re trying to avoid the wet weather, but every now and again you should just take it head on. Take the little ones on an Umbrella Walk or a Puddle Promenade. Pick up some rain boots at the local thrift store or Target. Older children can build a small fort with several umbrellas. And my kids cannot recommend Snail Races highly enough. Kids collect snails and release them into the water flowing down the gutter.

Theme Park. At least once this winter, you should hit up a theme park in the rain. The lines are non-existent and laughter is guaranteed. Just pack dry clothes (and slippers!) in the car for the ride home. Pack a thermos of hot chocolate as a special treat to help thaw everyone out when you get back to the car.

Bowling. Kids love bowling, and everyone from little to big can play together. If you’re willing to spend a little money at the snack bar, kids would love getting french fries or nachos to bring back to eat right at your lane. Here’s a list of Orange County Bowling Alleys.

Cook. Yes, I know that cooking sounds like a chore to you, but the kids will love it. They can bake cookies or a cake. You can have them choose something to make for dinner. In fact, they can make up a grocery list and you can take them to the store to do their shopping for dinner. You might even get your regular shopping done while you’re there. Are there any achievements in their scout books about shopping or cooking? What about preparing for those evenings when everyone is going different directions at dinnertime? Have the kids make burritos or little pizzas and freeze them for those get-it-yourself dinner nights. If you want to get a group of kids together, but you don’t want to offer up your kitchen, there are cooking schools for kids that will host a group activity.

Go to the Gym. No, not 24 Hour Fitness. Sorry. Most kids’ gymnasiums offer open gym time or group parties, even if you’re not signed up for a regular class. Kids can tumble on the (indoor) equipment, learn somersaults, even jump on trampolines. Check out places that offer gymnastics for kids in Orange County.

Go to a Museum. There are tons of museums just for kids. Discovery Science Center is always popular. Or how about the new Pretend City in Irvine? There are museums to discover wildlife, dress-up, history or art.

Crafts Project. Make a gingerbread house, finger paintings or macaroni necklaces. You can keep it simple and just bring out the art supplies you have and let the kids exercise their imaginations. Or you can make a whole day of it by going to the craft store and picking out a big project that everyone can do together. A more expensive but less messy (for you) option is to take them to a ceramics place where they can decorate their masterpiece and bring it home.

Go to a Pet Store. Check out Omar’s Birds, Prehistoric Pets or just the local pet store near you. There’s even a pet store in Orange called Wagon Train Feed & Tack that specializes in farm animals – baby farm animals.

Indoor Bounce House. There are many places that have a variety of bounce houses set up indoors. They mostly cater to birthday parties, but some of them offer an open playtime too.

With all the fun things for kids to do, you and your kids will be looking forward to the next rainy day!

Haunted Attractions in Orange County

Posted on: October 11th, 2009 by Coleen Bennett 1 Comment

Do your kids love Halloween? Do they like to be scared? Throughout October there are lots of opportunities for frights and fun. These are mostly geared towards older kids and teenagers – kids who don’t mind having a ghoul jump out and scare them when they don’t expect it. Some are scarier than others, and most have a recommended age.

Some organizations set up a haunted something either in a home or in a retail space. They all have a theme, which changes each year. Do clowns scare you? What about a maze and characters based on Silent Hill?  There are some very creative people out there ready to scare you to pieces!

Some historical societies are taking advantage of Orange County’s rich history. You can go on a tour of a historic neighborhood or forest, with the tour leader sharing local ghost stories along the way. San Juan Capistrano does a great haunted Halloween tour of Los Rios Street, and groups are small enough that the tour leader can adjust the scariness level to the age of the group. Fullerton Arboretum hosts a tour through a haunted forest, led by a vampire.

The granddaddy of all Orange County Halloween activities is Knott’s Scary Farm. It’s pricier than the others, but you get the rides as well as the Halloween frights.  Ghouls will jump out and scare you as you make your way through the scary mazes.

One of the best things about these haunted houses is that each one is unique. You could go to one each weekend and have a different experience each time. Check out the listing of the Haunted Houses in Orange County.

Tippity Witchit's Hallowe'en

Posted on: October 1st, 2009 by Coleen Bennett 6 Comments

This is one of my favorite stories ever. It was written by Olive Beaupre Miller and published in the 1920s as part of a collection of stories called My Book House. I believe that the copyright has expired. At the end of this post, there is a pdf version of the story, so you can print it out if you like. I hope you enjoy this story as much as I always have.

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tw1Two round, yellow eyes glowed like little lanterns in the darkness of the barn. Those eyes belonged to a kitten by the name of Tippity Witchit. He was all jet black except for a tiny white spot on the very tip of his tail and he lay curled up in the straw with his mother, a nice yellow Tabby, and all his brothers and sisters. His eyes were still wide open while all the rest were asleep, because he was very angry. “I want to leave you, Mother, to go out and see the world.” That’s what he had said that day.

But his mother had said: “My darling, you are still a very small kitten. When you have grown somewhat older, you shall go out and see the world.”

Tippity Witchit sulked. The idea of telling him he was only a little kitten! Giving himself a shake, he got up from the straw. He was as big as the next cat and able to meet all adventures that might befall the cat tribe – anywhere in the world! Sneaking off to the door, he slipped across the barnyard and out on the long stretch of highway that ran to the wide, wide world. Oh, what a moon was shining! It turned all the fields to silver. And little mists were rising shimmering over the meadows. He was out in a white world of moonlight with little black shadows dancing here and there on the edges. He was out like a great big cat in the mystery of the night!

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Strutting along on his way, shivering a little with cold, for the time was late October, he saw a field where the cornstalks stood piled up in stacks like tepees of the Indians with yellow pumpkins lying all around them on the ground. The whole field swam in moonlight. It glittered and it glistened! Tippity Witchit leapt! He bounced on down the road half-bursting with delight.

tw3aBut then he saw something different. He passed a dried up garden and there stood a wild-looking scarecrow, wearing an old felt hat and an old black suit of man’s clothes. That scarecrow certainly gave young Tippity Witchit a start! He quieted down in an instant. But he said to himself very boldly: “I’m a big cat, I am! I’m not afraid of a thing in all the whole, wide world!”

Just the same, he trembled when he came to the very next cornfield. The corn here had not been cut; it stood in ghostly rows, like a bank of withered old witches. Its long dried leaves hung down like ghostly withered old arms, its tassels streamed out every which way like straggly hair on a hag. “I’m not afraid of a thing,” he had to repeat to himself.

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But as Tippity Witchit was looking, he thought he heard a low chuckle. A little light appeared, dancing over a meadow. Here, there, and nowhere, it went!

tw5“Hey, there, Will-o’-the-Wisp!” he certainly heard a chorus of shrill little bell-like voices call to that impish light. And the silver mists on the fields all of a sudden seemed to have millions of bright little eyes. There were sprites there laughing in the moonlight! Their filmy, long, white robes went trailing, curling, swirling.

And the mischievous little light that was the Will-o’-the-Wisp, began to dance with the mist sprites. Hide and seek, they played till all the world seemed alive and full of strange little chuckles. Tippity Witchit chuckled and began to dance himself.

tw6Then Tippity Witchit heard above those chuckles a cackling, a queer kind of cackling laughter like the cackles of old Biddy Hen. And, up there against the face of the big round silver moon, he saw a black figure sailing – an old lady with a tall peaked hat and a black robe floating behind her, riding along on a broomstick and stroking a huge, black cat. She sailed right across the sky; and behind her – there came in perfect triangular formation – a bevy of big, black bats soaring on big, black wings.

tw7aThe Old Witch came circling and circling, lower and lower and lower, till she landed right in the field before that hag-like row of shriveled old corn witches. And, the squadron of big black bats, breaking their orderly ranks, flew and fluttered about in a dusky cloud overhead.

“Land of living kittens!” Tippity Witchit cried, “Life is exciting at last!”

Cackling and cackling and cackling, the Old Witch waved her broomstick and that row of old corn witches suddenly came to life. They began to rustle a little and then to crackle and snap! They waved their long, withered arms and danced in their even rows in a kind of drill like soldiers. Their arms moved back and forth; they swayed on their long, thin bodies; their hair streamed out in the wind; and they rustled and crackled and snapped.

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“Miaow, miaow, miaow!” went the old Witch’s big black cat. Then hundreds of other black cats came running out of the shadows. They all began to dance, miaowing and caterwauling and making a hideous din.

“Here’s something to brag about!” Tippity Witchit cried. “Won’t I tell a good story when I get home again!”

But, just at that moment, Old Mother Witch looked down in the moonlight and spied young Tippity Witchit.

“Cack, cack, cack!” she laughed. “You’re a nice young Thomas Cat, and the proper color for me! I’ve only to wave my broomstick and make you my cat forever like all these other black cats. Then you can follow me out in the wide, wide world and frolic and dance in the moonlight till the very last end of time.”

Well, Tippity Witchit went cold and yet he was all on fire! He tingled and trembled and shivered. He wanted to join that mad throng.

“Ah, but!” said Old Mother Witch. “I see a white spot on your tail. You can never be my cat until you are, tip to nose, as black as they sky at midnight!”

Tippity crumpled up. To lose such fun for a white spot!

tw9a“Never mind, young cat. I’ll remedy that spot.” Old Mother Witch waved her broomstick; and, in a second of time, who came shambling along up the road, but the scarecrow out of the garden with a few little carrots and turnips gamboling along at his heels.  He was swinging his long, empty sleeves and shuffling his great big feet! The limp, black legs of his pants were bending at very odd places! His black hat was jammed so far down it sat on top of his shoulders! Wild little wisps of straw-stuffing stuck out in crazy fashion! And one of his handless arms held an old watering-pot.

“Get me some ink from the shadows.” Old Mother Witch called out, and the scarecrow gave one great dive into the deepest shadow. Tippity Witchit could see the blackness of night like black water pour in a smooth black stream, as out of some unseen faucet, into the watering-pot.

“Sprinkle it now on the white spot on the tail of this Thomas Cat,” Old Mother Witch commanded. The scarecrow had lifted the pot and was just on the very point of pouring the ink on the white spot when, all at once, Tippity Witchit heard a miaowing and running. Something came leaping and bounding, hurrying up the road. Jerking around in surprise, Tippity Witchit saw his mother come running toward him.  The ink, pouring out as he turned, missed the spot on his tail and smeared in a big black shadow out on the ground beside him.

“Tipity Witchint, don’t!” his mother screeched in terror.  “Keep that white spot on your tail. It’s Hallowe’en, my child! If the Old Witch gets you tonight, you’ll never come home again.” Before she could say any more the Old Witch raised her broomstick. She flourished it in the air, and Tippity Witchit’s mother was suddenly turned to china. A fine, yellow china cat shining there in the moonlight, she stood – unable to move, unable to speak a word – frozen in the very act of leaping along the road. She looked like a beautiful ornament for somebody’s mantlepiece.

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“Miaow! Aow! Aow!” Tippity Witchit’s heart was smitten for a moment! His mother! His poor mother! But the dance was so very enticing! He wanted to caper and leap, to dance with that crazy crowd.

“Pour it on now,” said the Witch.

Tippity Witchit felt creepy. His mother! His poor mother! He wished and yet he feared. Well, he was a grown-up cat! “I don’t rush into things!” he threw out his chest a little. “I’ll just think the matter over!”

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“Cack, cack, cack,” laughed the Witch. “Then come along with me, and see what you shall see and think what you shall think.” She took him up on her broomstick and oh, what a thrill was that! They soared up into the air and off to a neighboring cornfield. Breathless, Tippity Witchit clutched with all four feet the handle of that old broomstick. Such a ride as that he had never had in his life!

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They circled over the field and Tipity saw below the corn stacked up in piles with pumpkins lying about as big and round as the moon. And the crazy cats and the scarecrows and the little carrots and turnips cam gamboling through the cornstalks. Down dived the witch with a zip, alighting on the ground. Pumpkins lay all around. She flourished her magic broomstick and all at once those pumpkins suddenly started to grim. They had eyes! They had mouths! They had noses! They had little lights shining in them! Turned into jack-o-lanterns, they started to gambol, too; and the lights in their little heads went glimmering here and there, roguishly winking and blinking.

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“Hey there, merry fellows,” Tippity Witchit managed to get enough courage to shout.

Again the Old Witch raised her broomstick and this time the stack of corn turned into Indian tepees. Before each tepee, there sat a ghostly old Indian brave. Made of thin air were those braves! They had no more real body than the filmiest kind of night clouds. Serious, grave, and stately, they sat and they smoked and they smoked! And the smoke from their long Indian pipes rolled out and lost itself in the white mist over the cornfields. They sat and they smoked and they smoked and they watched the mad dance going on.

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The will-o’-the-wisps came flickering. They drew up their flames long and lean. They leapt up into the air. Whisk! They were gone altogether! The eyes of the mist sprites glittered. They trailed their white skirts and they gamboled. The jack-o-lanterns frolicked, grinning and winking their lights. The little carrots and turnips broke away from the scarecrow and tumbled with headlong somersaults into the merry-making. A thousand little, dried leaves blew in like crazy things – zipping and flipping and fluttering. The corn witches swayed themselves forward as far as they could reach on their long, thin, shriveled bodies. Old Mother Witch left her broomstick and whirled around with the scarecrow! The cats danced in crazy couples; the bats sailed, dipped, and fluttered in wild antics overhead. All the world seemed to twitter, to chuckle and cackle and snap. And above that whole merry scene, the old Moon laughed till he cried, his tears coming down to the earth in a shower of silver moonbeams.

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“This is the life for a cat!” Tippity Witchit miaowed. Would he pay too big a price if he gave himself up forever to follow Old Mother Witch? What dancing! Oh, what dancing! A hundred times, he was tempted. He followed new here, now there, the revel of those crazy madcaps. A hundred times, as he watched, the scarecrow dashed from the dancing at Old Mother Witch’s command to chase after Tippity Witchit and sprinkle the ink on his tail.

But there was, by chance, one thing that Old Mother Witch had forgotten when she turned Mother Cat into china. She had frozen the pleading and begging in Mother Cat’s pleading eyes into a fixed expression. So, wherever Tippity Witchit went in that wild night’s wild wanderings, his mother’s eyes shone on him, begging, pleading, imploring. That look kept just one little, small grain of sense alive in the head of the giddy cat child. Mother Cat couldn’t talk, but still she could speak with her eyes. And so, every time the scarecrow stole up on Tippity Witchit, Tippity Witchit whisked off and out of the scarecrow’s reach.

For hours and hours and hours, the dance went on in the moonlight. And then the Old Witch got impatient. The more that little black cat kept himself out of her clutches, the more determined she grew that she would get him for keeps. And so, at last, she cackled to a sleek little back girl kitten: “Go and ask that standoffish young Thomas Cat to dance!”

tw16aAnd the sleek, little, black girl kitten came and miaowed very sweetly: “O won’t you dance with me?”

Well, Tippity Witchit just couldn’t say “no” to an offer like that. He gave up resisting completely and went waltzing off with the girl cat, out in the midst of the frolic. He whirled and he whirled and he whirled, until he was dizzy with whirling. Life was a merry-go-round, a jolly old whirligig! At last he fell down on the ground, his thoughts all whirling inside him. And now he was far out of reach of his mother’s imploring eyes. The last grain of sense he had disappeared in a buzzing and whizzing. The little girl cat gave a giggle and made a sign to the scarecrow. The scarecrow came up with his inkpot; Old Mother Witch stood cackling, ready to raise her broomstick, and Tippity Witchit’s last hour as a nice, homey, family cat with the love of his mother to cheer him, seemed, alas, to have struck. But just at that moment, “Oh! Ah! Ah! Oh!” a shriek burst from Old Mother Witch. The sky in the East showed pink and the moon dipped suddenly down over the edge of the world. Dawn, the dawn was coming! The sun sent a warning beam!

In an instant that mad world changed. Tippity Witchit came to and opened one eye to see it.

The leaves flopped down and lay still, so did the carrots and turnips. The will-o’-the-wisps and mist sprites disappeared as by magic! The bats flew off in a twinkling! The old Indian braves at their smoking vanished into thin air, their tepees were stacks of corn; the jack-o-lanterns were pumpkins! The scarecrow flew back to his garden to be nothing more than a scarecrow! The ghostly old corn witches were only rows of dried corn. And Old Mother Witch, what a change! She turned into a spider – hurrying, hurrying, hurrying to roof herself over with cobwebs and hide close down to the earth. The black cats turned into ants and scurried away at a great rate. And that was the end, for a year,  of that madcap Hallowe’en revel! Only one night a year to gambol in the moonlight. All the rest of time to be nothing more than an ant! Tippity Witchit shivered! What had had escaped!

tw17a“Miaow! Miaow!” he began to call for his mother. And, at that moment, flash! A sunbeam struck Mother Cat. In one brilliant sparkle of light, Mother Cat was released from the spell that bound her in china. She sprang up high in the air. Then she leapt up to Tippity Witchit and took him by his ear. “Now, we’ll go home,” she said, “and don’t you go wandering again until you are really as big as you thought yourself tonight!”

And Tippity Witchit said, “Miaow!” But what he meant by that, you will have to guess for yourself.

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Kids Gym has moved to Capistrano Beach

Posted on: September 23rd, 2009 by Coleen Bennett No Comments

A cooking class for 5 year olds? Basketball and hockey for 4 year olds? A science class for 3 year olds? Yep! Kids Gym lets the young ones do all these fun things and more. Classes are geared toward the preschool set, who like to get their hands dirty!

doughy-handsThese classes are for kids and their parents, and a good time will be had by all. The cooking class helps kids build math, science and thinking skills.  They’ll mix, shake, stir, and blend to create delicious, messy munchies to share. Did I mention messy? The Messy Art class involves – you guessed it – hands on projects like fingerpainting. I think a theme is beginning to emerge!

Kids Gym also offers drop in child care on selected days and evenings so that parents can get away for a little while, knowing that their kids are having a blast.

Want more Kids Gym? Preschool is offered two, three or five days a week.

Kids Gym has recently moved from Rancho Santa Margarita to Capistrano Beach. Visit their website or stop by and see their new digs!

A Great Weekend Getaway

Posted on: September 20th, 2009 by Coleen Bennett 3 Comments

Looking for a short vacation that’s fun for the kids? I found a place that’s just far enough away from home to count as a vacation, and very kid-friendly.

The Rancho Las Palmas resort in Palm Springs has a mini-waterpark at the hotel. They have a lazy river, two 100-foot long slides, a little beach area and a main pool, and there are plenty of lifeguards. The adults think the golf course is for them, but kids know that the ponds are home to frogs, tadpoles and ducks.

Rancho Las Palmas Lazy River

Rancho Las Palmas Lazy River

The water park area is open 10-6 every day, with slightly longer hours on holiday weekends. The pool is open until 10 pm, and on some weekend nights they pull a screen out to show a kids movie poolside. They serve food and drink at the pool. The food is really good, and although it’s a little pricey it’s worth it for a vacation luxury.

The gift shop by the pool sells all kinds of pool and water toys, and they can be used at the resort. I saw kids with squirt guns, float toys and more. Of course it’s less expensive if you buy them at Target before you go.

If you arrive before check in time, they’ll give you wristbands so you can use the pool and waterpark before checkin. If you have more than four in your family, you know that hotels usually don’t allow more than four in a regular size hotel room, but I had no trouble getting five wristbands.

We got a room facing the golf course for $150 a night during labor day weekend. Rooms facing the pool area were more expensive. There is an additional $25 per day resort fee.

Palm Springs is only about a 1 ½ hour drive from Orange County. Having your car means that you can bring your own food or stop at the grocery store if you like, so you don’t have to eat three meals a day at restaurants. There are many reasonably priced restaurants nearby, including IHOP and Hometown Buffet. And for you Starbucks addicts, there is a Starbucks in the hotel.

If you want to venture out of the hotel, there are a few other kid-friendly things to do in Palm Springs. The Aerial Tramway takes you from the desert floor to the mountain in about 10 minutes. The ride itself is beautiful and fun. When you get to the top you can go hiking, or just visit the giftshop and restaurant. In the winter, they rent snowshoes and cross-country ski equipment.

The Palm Springs Air Museum has a wonderful display of historic aircraft. Many of the docents are retired military or family of military. They give tours of a couple of the larger craft.

If you’re trying to sneak in a few days of family fun, I highly recommend a short trip to Palm Springs. It’s something the kids will remember!

Finding Those Hard to Find Goodies

Posted on: August 19th, 2009 by Coleen Bennett No Comments

Have you ever had your favorite food disappear from store shelves? Are there foods or candies that remind you of something from your childhood? Have you moved and your favorite product isn’t sold in your new area?

Marshmallow Fluff

Marshmallow Fluff

Some of those products are still made, they’re just not distributed to all markets. But there is a place you can get them. Crossroads Market has an online store of hard-to find products. You can order them online and they’ll send them to you wherever you are. You can even request a product and they’ll research it to see if it’s still available!

So go find that marshmallow Fluff or Vienna Sausages that you can’t seem to get your hands on anymore. And enjoy!

Beeman's Gum

Beeman's Gum

Malt-O-Meal

Vienna Sausage

Vienna Sausage

Reese's Peanut Butter

Reese's Peanut Butter

Dance Classes for Children

Posted on: August 13th, 2009 by Coleen Bennett 2 Comments

Dance classes are great for children. Once they’re old enough to play with others and be part of a group, they can participate in all kinds of activities, including sports like soccer, t-ball and gymnastics. Many parents choose a dance or gymnastics class as their child’s first class because it’s good for children as young as 2 or 3 years old. Many kids love this activity and continue with dance, gymnastics and cheerleading through high school and beyond. Others grow from this experience and go on to try different things. Here are some of the benefits of early involvement in dance classes.

  • Exercise. Children who partake in dance classes are constantly active. Dance, regardless of what style, helps children build endurance, strengthen muscles, and increase flexibility. Dancing also teaches children to appreciate and take care of their body. Instilling these healthy values in your child while they are young can have long term positive effects.
  • Coordination: Enrolling your son or daughter in dance classes will help them acquire a keen sense of coordination. Coordination is imperative in the world of dance. Children are more apt to pick up and keep skills that they learn at an early age, so the dexterity of dance will become second nature to your child. It can also be an advantage as your child grows and decides to pursue other activities like sports.
  • Social Skills. Dance classes allow your child to interact with their peers in a positive manner. Joining in similar activities with like-minded individuals will give them bonding experiences that will last for a life time. Dance and gymnastics classes are non-competitive and are often cooperative.
  • Creativity: Dance classes will help your child get in touch with their creative sides by exposing them to the art of many cultures offering a wide variety of creative influences. Involving them in this kind of instruction so young will help them hone in on their own skills which can lead them to lifelong hobbies or even to their dream career.
  • Appreciation of the Arts: Dance is not limited to a series of movements performed to music. Different styles of dance are influenced by different cultures. Dance classes will educate your children on several cultures and artistic movements throughout history.
  • Responsibility: Dance classes require a certain amount of responsibility and dedication. Should your child become involved in dance they will learn the value of commitment in terms of progress. This life lesson is extremely important in all arenas and will help them succeed in the future.
  • Confidence: Performing in front of others is something a lot of teens and adults fear. Involving your child in dance will lead to performances in front of family and friends. As they progress in their dance career they will be on stage in front of larger audiences. Each well executed performance (be it in practice or on stage) will leave them more confident in themselves.

There’s no shortage of dance studios in Orange County that offer children’s classes. You can pick out a dance studio by visiting and watching a class in action. Many city recreation departments offer introductory dance classes for kids. This is a great way to find out what a studio is like, while only making a commitment for 6 weeks or so.

I’m usually reluctant to buy gear for kids (who are growing) for a short-term class that they may or may not like. In the case of dance leotards, dance shoes and even tutus and cheerleading shoes and outfits, kids will play with them as dress up costumes even if they never do more than the first six week class.

10 Things to do to Get Ready for Back to School

Posted on: August 9th, 2009 by Coleen Bennett No Comments

A couple of weeks ago I saw school supplies in local Orange County stores.  My first thought was, “Arrghh!  It’s only July!”  But then I started thinking about some of the things I want to get for the kids, and some of them take a little lead time.

So here’s my list of 10 things to get ready for Back to School.

1. How many times have you sent your child to school with ten freshly sharpened pencils, and then a week later they can’t find a pencil? Customized pencils are available at a pretty reasonable price. You could get a set of pencils with your child’s name. Those should be less likely to end up in someone else’s desk. Or what about a nickname, favorite quote or inside joke that will make your child smile? There are also fun pencils like scented Smencils or Swarovski Crystal pencils. Speaking of pencils, how about a fun pencil sharpener like these noses?

2. If your child uses the computer for reports or projects at school and at home, a thumb drive can help them carry their work in progress with them. They even make some that look like monsters, robots or animals.

3. Get a globe and a map of the United States for your house. I’m amazed how often my kids refer to these. It’s not just at homework time, either. A question will come up on a game show and the kids will run to the map to find the answer. It also helps kids put things together. They can tough a globe and see how a flat map of the U.S. fits in with it. You might even go so far as to get a map of your community so they can see their home, the school, the grocery store and other places they visit frequently.

4. Get a wall calendar for your house and mark important dates on it for everyone to see. My favorite is Boynton’s Mom’s Calendar. Start out with the school calendar. Mark down the first day of school, holidays and minimum days. Add sports schedules and play dates. When the teacher asks your child to bring something to school on a certain date, have them mark it on the calendar. When your child asks you if they can make plans for Tuesday after school, send them to the calendar to check if they’re free. This is the start of them managing their time, instead of you.

5. A planner. Schools are using planners for younger and younger kids, and it’s a great idea. Long before they have to manage homework from six different classes, they get used to writing their homework in their planner each day. If your school sells planners at orientation or in the classroom, get that one. It’s easier to use the same planner that everyone else is using. If your school doesn’t do planners in an organized way, you might want to think about getting a planner for your child anyway.

6. Lunch supplies. Start thinking about what you’re going to do for lunches. Are you going to send them to school with their lunch, give them money each day, or buy lunch tickets? Start stocking up on lunchbags and ziplocs. What kind of things will you need for lunches? Make a grocery list (or better yet, have you kids make a grocery list) for the week before school starts. If your child is just getting used to being away at lunchtime, maybe you could get a cute notepad to write a little note to put in your child’s lunch each day.

7. Set up a homework place. Kids need a homework routine including a quiet place to do homework. Give this some thought before school starts. Is it easier to do homework at the kitchen table where you can supervise? Or do younger kids who have already finished their homework distract kids who still have work to do? Can you set up a desk in their room? If they do homework at after-school care, set up a routine for kids to show you what they’ve done. You can check it off against the planner and see if there’s anything they need help with.

8. Establish a routine for papers that need to go to you. My least favorite part of school is when I’m getting everybody ready and one of them announces that they need to bring (fill in the blank) to school today. Of course it’s usually something I need to go to the store for and somehow the notice never got to me. So as part of homework, your child should put anything that’s supposed to go to you in a specified place.

9. Novels and textbooks. Younger kids are often expected to read for a certain number of minutes each evening as part of their homework. For kids in the upper grades, sometimes the teachers will give you a reading list at the beginning of the year. If you are the first on your block to act, you might be able to find these novels at a used bookstore. Another option is to order them online. If you order a certain dollar amount’s worth of books, sometimes you can get free shipping. If you’re almost at that magical number, consider ordering another copy of something for the teacher to have as a spare.

Middle and high schoolers often have to lug heavy textbooks back and forth every day. If you can get the ISBN number of a textbook, you can buy a copy to keep at home. If you can get it used, the cost can be very reasonable. Start with the math book, because there’s math homework almost every night. This also avoids the ever-popular, “I can’t do my homework because I didn’t bring my book home.”

10. Transportation plan. How are the kids going to get to and from school? If they’re old enough to ride their bike this year, it’s time to make sure the tires and air and you have a bike lock and a helmet that fits.  Do a couple of test runs before school starts so they’ll get used to the route. If you’re going to carpool, start calling other parents to work out a schedule.

The teachers always have lists of required school supplies. You may be able to get most of the information early on your school’s website or in their office. The afternoon of the first day of school is a terrible time to shop. The stores are running out of things and the lines are long. If you can, pick up the essentials starting now, while they’re on sale. When you see markers for 19 cents or folders for a dime, get 3 times what your child will need. They’ll need to replenish their supplies around winter break and spring break, and the prices won’t be so low then. You might also think about getting some extras to give to the teacher when you see a deal that’s too good to pass up.

Last Week for the Orange County Fair

Posted on: August 4th, 2009 by Coleen Bennett No Comments

This is the last weekend to enjoy the Orange County Fair. It runs through this Sunday, August 9th.

If you’re planning to go this Wednesday, Thursday or Friday and you can arrive before 5:00 PM, stop at a Ralph’s grocery store before you go. If you spend $10 or more, you’ll get a coupon to get tickets to the fair for $5. That’s half of the regular adult ticket price!

If you’re going this weekend, August 8th or 9th, you can get in for $2 if you arrive before 2:00 PM.  You’ll need a coupon from the fair’s website.

Audio Books for Long Car Rides

Posted on: August 2nd, 2009 by Coleen Bennett 2 Comments

Many of us are scaling back on vacation expenses this year. Even with gas prices the way they are, if you have a family of 4 or 5, driving is probably cheaper than flying.

What do your kids do in the back seat during a long drive? If your kids are like mine, you might hear a recurring refrain–”When are we going to get there?”…over and over and over again. Or worse, they might argue with each other, which ruins the ride for everyone. Some kids keep busy with hand-held video games. A few might be busy with activity books. And, with a goodie-box full of toys, the kids may play together peacefully.

Portable DVD players can keep the kids quiet (or giggling) for an hour or two. And (if the kids use earphones) the adults in the front seat can even talk with each other.

But if it’s a long trip, you may want to balance the together time as a family and quiet time or DVD machines for the kids

Have you thought of “reading” an audio book on your next trip? There are several benefits for you and your kids:

  1. Just for Fun–you can find a wide assortment of stories, read by excellent narrators and many are wonderfully “dramatic” readings similar to Old-time-radio.
  2. Kids get involved in the story–while finding out what happens next, time can fly by.
  3. Under-The-Radar Learning–Listening to books exercises creative “muscles”. Hearing witty author’s words and phrases expands vocabulary and communication skills.
  4. The story line, the adventures of the characters and the challenges of the circumstances can be natural conversation-starters, keeping your fellow-travelers engaged in conversation.
  5. Establishes a family ritual…traveling as a group, engaged in a common focus. Without too much effort, you’re evidencing a “family event” that has a function beyond just getting there.

Many public libraries offer a selection of audio books on tape or on CD’s. And, if you feel inclined you can purchase audio books at most book stores. There are also on-line e-stores from which you can purchase and download MP3 file books for an Ipod or MP3 players–just Google “audio books” for a lengthy list of resources.

So on your next road-trip, why not try an audio book for the kids in the back seat. They might enjoy the diversion and you’ll enjoy a few moments of quiet attention. For more ideas about keeping the peace, visit Parent Success Network . It’s not just about homework–they talk about other kid issues, too.